Questions for Parents

Answers by Dr. Hayley Murray.

This page is educational and not a substitute for medical or legal advice.

1. How can I start a calm conversation with my child about recreational drugs?

Start with curiosity, not accusation. Ask open-ended questions, listen without interrupting, and focus on safety and trust.

2. What warning signs should I watch for?

Look for changes over time across multiple areas: sleep, mood, school performance, social circles, and money use. One sign alone usually does not tell the whole story.

3. Is fear-based messaging effective?

Evidence generally suggests that clear, honest, age-appropriate information works better than exaggerated claims. Teens often disengage if they feel they are being misled.

4. What should I do if I think use is becoming harmful?

Prioritize safety first. Document what you observe, avoid confrontations during conflict, and involve a pediatrician, school counselor, or licensed mental health/substance use professional.

5. How can families reduce risk?

Protective factors include strong family communication, consistent boundaries, healthy routines, and supportive adult relationships.

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